common BDSM and Kink Myths
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There’s so much misinformation floating around about this complex and diverse realm of human sexuality.
Here are some common myths I hear from non-kinky folks-
Myth: BDSM is all about pain.
Truth: While some BDSM practices may involve pain, BDSM is primarily about power dynamics, trust, and consent. Pain is just one aspect and is often consensual and pleasurable for those involved.
Myth: BDSM is abusive.
Truth: BDSM is rooted in mutual consent, communication, and respect. It’s about exploring desires and boundaries in a safe and consensual way. Abuse and BDSM are entirely different, and consent is always paramount.
Myth: BDSM is only for damaged people.
Truth: People from all walks of life engage in BDSM, and it has nothing to do with being damaged. BDSM can be a healthy and fulfilling expression of sexuality for individuals and couples who enjoy exploring power dynamics and kinks.
Myth: BDSM is always extreme.
Truth: BDSM encompasses a wide range of activities, from mild bondage and role-playing to more intense practices like impact play and edge play. What’s considered extreme varies from person to person, and many enjoy BDSM in a safe and controlled manner.
Myth: BDSM is only for heterosexual couples.
Truth: BDSM is inclusive of all sexual orientations and genders. People of any sexual orientation can enjoy BDSM, whether they’re in a relationship or single, and it can enhance intimacy and connection regardless of gender identity.
Myth: BDSM is anti-feminist.
Truth: BDSM is about consensual power exchange, and feminism is about empowering individuals to make choices about their bodies and sexuality. Many feminists engage in BDSM as a form of sexual expression and empowerment.